3 LESSONS ALL HUSBAND LEARNED FROM GUARDIOLA MARRIAGE
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3 Lessons ALL MEN Should Take from Guardiola’s MARRIAGE
Guardiola is the manager of Manchester City who met his wife in 1994
1. He met her when he was 18 years old while playing for Barcelona. They started dating since 1994 and married in 2014, 20 year later. Some people are in relationships or marriage today and are still stucked in this idea that knowing or being with someone for a very long time means their love life would be happily ever after.
2. The ex wife was a fashionista who came from a well to do family. Marrying the most beautiful woman or a rich man will not spear you from eating breakfast
When the Ex wife was quizzed after being spotted by a reporter. She said:
“My parents have always advised me to find what I am passionate about”
Now Guardiola is worth $60million, they have three kids, family and being together for 30 years. Still, it wasn’t enough, something was missing
What was missing? A close friend of Guardiola when interviewed said the marriage ended because “He’s a total workaholic and it took a toll on his relationship”
Some men are out there working so hard for the sake of their family but have ungrateful wives at home.
For most women a perfect husband means, a man who is home to make dinner for his beloved wife, go to the movies together while holding hands and change dippers.
And there’s nothing wrong with wanting all that but when choosing a wife make sure you know what she desires. Be on the same page.
3. Know what you want.
Majority of people don’t know what is priority for them. Do you want a rich man who is a workaholic or an average guy who have all the time to spend with you but can’t provide a luxury lifestyle? Don’t marry a Guardiola then leave him after 30 years of marriage for not making enough time. This is applicable to both men and women!
Don’t get it twisted, being rich is not enough but a quality to have on the side to strike the balance as required for the relationship to thrive
Everyone was wondering the reason for Guardiola’s downfall in football, he started acting strangely, there was a time he scratched his own face with his nails after just a draw in a match. After games, he sits alone for a long time deep in thoughts and was even mocked he would be sack by fans. No one knew he was going through marital struggles
He lost his largest mansion, half of his fortune, lost his children, his family and perhaps his club soon by 2027.
Men absorbes so much struggles, it doesn’t matter what you feel, get up and get it done. Being a man is not about not feeling things, it about feeling things and still acting like a man.
Sometimes people say Dayo you act like you don’t have feelings. I feel things, all the pains and emotions but it won’t stop me from getting things done. Welcome to the brotherhood!
My name is Flavien IZADUFASHA
